I rather adore the Disney movie Beauty and the Beast, but it brings up a really good point. Majority of society really DOESNT look past the outer appearance. Sure, there are situations and a low number of people that genuinely do and are given the chance to see through the outer shell-but what is the survey number? Very low.
I have known ALOT of people who say it isn't "looks" that matter to them, but I beg to differ. & When given the chance to prove society wrong, they usually have an alternative motive. Money, advancement, pity; just a few to name. Hey; I admit to being one of these-that's for sure. Although, the more I thought about it, the worse I felt.
I meant a genuinely SWEET person a few days ago & all I could think was, "Man, his lazy eye is real creepy." He cldn't help it (well glasses) &&& the kind sir asked for my number. I declined, ONLY TO FIND OUT HE DROVE A CADILLAC CTS & co-owner of a dealership. Damn. I missed a good one.
Isn't that messed up? I was upset that I didn't realize he was loaded and no that I lucked out on a probabley awesomely good guy! This encounter really got me to thinking about the way people are viewed. I highly doubt I am alone in this.
Not to even mention myself, BUT think about it. I am a thicker girl & I understand preferences. Everyone has them. I dont like bigger guys. I PREFER skinny, stocky or built (& Tall<3) I am a hypocrite cz I'm a big girl. Can you imagine the guys that will open up to me once I lose weight? That is NOT my goal, but just something to ponder. Will my taste in men change? Will they guys who drool over me now, not like me then? I will still be just as Gorgeous, if not MORE! lol.
Honestly-If you cant like me fat, you wont have me thin!:D
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